Making a New Home After Divorce or Loss
Whether you’re going through a divorce or grieving the loss of a spouse, creating a new home can be a healing journey.
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My Journey to a New Home
On July 30th, 2021, I bought a cozy cottage, transforming it into my sanctuary step by step. This move was a shock to all of us. Just a month earlier, my husband and I decided to separate—a heart-wrenching decision. But through this, I’ve witnessed God’s faithfulness in countless ways.
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I’ve shared the struggles and triumphs of my journey on Instagram. The early months were a blur of brokenness and change, yet filled with the constant goodness of God.
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Selling Our Home
Should you sell your home when you divorce? For us, selling was necessary. Despite the market’s strength, we faced setbacks, and selling our nearly paid-off home was emotional but necessary. I needed a fresh start, and my new cottage provided that.
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Finding a New Place
After our separation, I focused on where to live. I wanted to stay in the same neighborhood for my kids and my dog, Carson. Miraculously, I found a house on the same street as a close friend. This move has stretched me, teaching me new skills and independence.
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Tips for Moving On
- Embrace Your New Life: Decide what you want in your new home and let go of items that bind you to the past.
- Let Go of Sentimental Items: Keep what brings joy and store the rest until you’re ready.
- Give Yourself Permission to Fail and Learn: Trying new things and asking for help are essential steps.
- Make Your House a Home: Start with small projects to make your new place feel like home.
Finding Purpose After Divorce
Life after divorce is challenging, but it’s also a time to discover new strengths. My motto is “to encourage women in hard places with hope.” I pray these tips help you find confidence and hope.
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Creating a new home is more than just a fresh start; it’s a step towards healing and finding your true self. Embrace the journey, and remember, you are not alone.